http://www.slolane.org/2007/01/06/light-at-the-end-of-the-tunnel/ Blog of central CA coast twin mom Sun, 06 Jul 2008 01:19:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.slolane.org/2007/01/06/light-at-the-end-of-the-tunnel/#comment-694 Stephanie Tue, 09 Jan 2007 18:39:03 +0000 http://builtbymom.com/slolane/?p=263#comment-694 I think the fear of spousal helplessness comes up in a lot of marriages. Sorry to hear it came out in a form that couldn't help but be hurtful. I know (though he'd deny it) my own husband was taken aback when the woman he'd chosen, in part because of my independence, turned into a quivering lump of neediness once left alone with young offspring.. Your man's worries about your weight may be a quantifiable way of expressing a whole bunch of stresses...even including worries about his own future health and abilities. I think the fear of spousal helplessness comes up in a lot of marriages. Sorry to hear it came out in a form that couldn’t help but be hurtful. I know (though he’d deny it) my own husband was taken aback when the woman he’d chosen, in part because of my independence, turned into a quivering lump of neediness once left alone with young offspring.. Your man’s worries about your weight may be a quantifiable way of expressing a whole bunch of stresses…even including worries about his own future health and abilities.

]]> http://www.slolane.org/2007/01/06/light-at-the-end-of-the-tunnel/#comment-693 cyndi Tue, 09 Jan 2007 14:32:23 +0000 http://builtbymom.com/slolane/?p=263#comment-693 I'm 5'6". I won't tell you how much I DO weigh, but I will say I'd KILL to be 145. Ok, maybe not kill.....but maim. I’m 5′6″. I won’t tell you how much I DO weigh, but I will say I’d KILL to be 145. Ok, maybe not kill…..but maim.

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