Comments on: Lazyass No More: Happy New Year! http://www.slolane.org/2006/12/31/lazyass-no-more-happy-new-year/ Blog of central CA coast twin mom Thu, 20 Nov 2008 13:04:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Stacy http://www.slolane.org/2006/12/31/lazyass-no-more-happy-new-year/#comment-692 Stacy Wed, 17 Jan 2007 05:34:08 +0000 http://builtbymom.com/slolane/?p=261#comment-692 I read Buddhism for Mothers too. I read it at a time when I really needed it, I loved that book! My twins are now 4 and things are easier with them for the most part. But the arguing, that can be tough. I am like you on the weight thing too, except a little shorter. Also carrying about 10-15 extra pounds these days. It happens, I am 33 now. I have a desk job. I don't have a bad diet, I just need to exercise regularly. I am trying not to beat myself over it, but I get panicked when I think that I might have to move to double digits in pants sizes! I have vowed to not let that happen. Good luck with the exercise/weight thing. Hang in there! I read Buddhism for Mothers too. I read it at a time when I really needed it, I loved that book! My twins are now 4 and things are easier with them for the most part. But the arguing, that can be tough.

I am like you on the weight thing too, except a little shorter. Also carrying about 10-15 extra pounds these days. It happens, I am 33 now. I have a desk job. I don’t have a bad diet, I just need to exercise regularly. I am trying not to beat myself over it, but I get panicked when I think that I might have to move to double digits in pants sizes! I have vowed to not let that happen.

Good luck with the exercise/weight thing. Hang in there!

]]> By: Cyndi http://www.slolane.org/2006/12/31/lazyass-no-more-happy-new-year/#comment-691 Cyndi Thu, 04 Jan 2007 15:58:02 +0000 http://builtbymom.com/slolane/?p=261#comment-691 I love you, twinmama, I really do. I'm fairly blind with rage right now that a man exists in this world who could look at *you* and not be anything but grateful that he landed such a catch. I've seen photos.......you're a stunner. You are the kind of girl I look at and think "If only I could look like her..........". The idea that a man would take issue with the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN gaining weight as she got older and had kids........ Again..........blind with rage. So, I'll just say this........I love you. God, you're intelligent and beautiful and a crack up. A fricking catch. Someone needs to wake up to that. You don't need that, your girls certainly don't need to grow up with the idea embedded in their heads that love is dependant on some magical number on a scale. Pfft. I love you, twinmama, I really do.

I’m fairly blind with rage right now that a man exists in this world who could look at *you* and not be anything but grateful that he landed such a catch. I’ve seen photos…….you’re a stunner. You are the kind of girl I look at and think “If only I could look like her……….”. The idea that a man would take issue with the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN gaining weight as she got older and had kids……..

Again……….blind with rage.

So, I’ll just say this……..I love you. God, you’re intelligent and beautiful and a crack up. A fricking catch. Someone needs to wake up to that. You don’t need that, your girls certainly don’t need to grow up with the idea embedded in their heads that love is dependant on some magical number on a scale. Pfft.

]]> By: moe http://www.slolane.org/2006/12/31/lazyass-no-more-happy-new-year/#comment-690 moe Tue, 02 Jan 2007 12:09:43 +0000 http://builtbymom.com/slolane/?p=261#comment-690 Hmmm, you've been stressing about your weight for years now. Girls with small racks and big butts are sexy to some, you know. Bodies change over time, and I'm not sure all this discussion is the way to help you feel unconditionally loved. Still, somewhere in there, I'm pretty sure he means well, so the counseling is probably the right thing to do. Are you still seeing the hypnotherapist? He can help with it too. Hmmm, you’ve been stressing about your weight for years now. Girls with small racks and big butts are sexy to some, you know. Bodies change over time, and I’m not sure all this discussion is the way to help you feel unconditionally loved. Still, somewhere in there, I’m pretty sure he means well, so the counseling is probably the right thing to do. Are you still seeing the hypnotherapist? He can help with it too.

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